The One

A lot of people will go through life without ever finding that special someone. Many will meet their special someone, and foolishly let them go. The ones that are lucky will find that special someone, and hold on for dear life. They will do whatever it takes to make things work with their significant other.

Young adults will typically go through a series of different types of relationships. You'll meet the fling when you're young. They will typically go for the girl/guy who definitely has the looks and social status, but is either dumb as rocks or just has absolutely no personality. After a few of those, they will try to branch off (girls more than guys) to the guy or girl who has a great personality, isn't too bad to look at, but still doesn't have any deep emotional attachment to.

Then, if you're lucky, they meet that special someone. The one who can make you smile, without even being in the room. The one who can still make your stomach drop and give you butterflies by just walking into a room. The one who no matter how bad your day is going, can completely turn it around and make you feel on top of the world, just by being herself. Words cannot describe the feelings you feel for the other person in this type of relationship. They are your other half, and without them you're not whole. It's not always perfect, there are obstacles and rough times, but getting through those things will not only make you stronger as a person, but as a couple as well.

Now there are people out their who are bachelors, players, and people who don't see themselves ever getting into a relationship like that, but it could happen without you even realizing it. It could happen on your way to work, school, anywhere. Anytime.

There will be people against the relationship, and people who are for it. Their parents may love the fact that they are together, or hate it. But with like all relationships that end up successful, it takes hard work. It takes a lot of commitment, communication, and comprise for relationships to work. You can't let others influence your outlook on your relationship too much. Of course, you'll listen to other people's advice such as your friends and family, but what it really comes down to is how you feel in the relationship. Other people cannot tell you how to feel, but if you put too much thought into what other people tell you, it can put seeds in your head and the relationship can begin to spiral downward.

I didn't want to go too much into depth about what it feels like to find that special someone, or "the one", or what it takes to make your relationship with them work, but no matter how much of a player you are, you could meet that special someone sooner than you think.